I remain calm and I refused to be seduced by what is over…that's in addition to what the priest said from the last time's service that we can only live in the present moment….
I'm usually known to be a person who snaps back when being snapped at. And If that meant trouble, I can handle it face to face. Maybe when I was younger, I'd just break down or drown myself in pity. It's different now, somehow I have dealt with any kind of problem, conflicts, confrontation and by now no matter how this may seem endless I know how to handle it without consuming so much energy.
Anger is an uninvited guest , so the best thing to do is to play a bad host to an uninvited guest. And we have to control ourselves or else someone else will control us.
The obvious thing is, it's totally fruitless to be upset about things that are over or things that you're incapable of changing. Some people would really return to the past or use past reference to manipulate you as they choose.
I don't want a round-trip ticket to the past. I'm enjoying the present moment as it happens….
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